How to respond to a compliment?

You like when you make compliments? And how do you respond to that answer? Perhaps you are somewhere deep down believe that praise in your address was insincere or undeserved. Or just get lost and don’t know what to say in response.



About how to respond to compliments, and discussed today on the website “ToKnow365.top“.

Why the need for compliments

First, let’s understand what is a compliment? In French this word means praise, expression of approval, just nice words.

So, when we say a compliment, hereby acknowledge our dignity, praise and expressed appreciation. It’s nice, right?

Indeed, a proper assessment of our achievements and qualities inspires, elevates mood and self-esteem. But sometimes people just… don’t know how to take compliments and get pleasure from it. This happens for several reasons:

  • Low levels of self-esteem. People simply do not believe that it can be any quality worthy of praise.
  • A sincere belief that nothing commendable, he did not.
  • Habit to consider himself something compelled the person who made the compliment.
  • The inability to communicate and interact with people.
  • Total negative and suspicious attitude towards people.

How not to respond to compliments: common mistakes
Embarrassment

Usually this reaction is typical of people with low self-esteem. They dropped his eyes redden and begin, a little defensively, to talk about their faults, refuting the words of praise addressed to them.

As a result, the host looks in his own eyes is not too good: he wanted to Express his admiration, and in response I heard the list of shortcomings that previously may not have noticed.

In addition, this manner to respond to compliments can embarrass the interlocutor and to show him that his opinion does not play any role.

Lack of response to a compliment

Usually this “sin” people who don’t like or not used to being the center of attention. They tend to get off duty with the phrase like “Thank you”, “You too…” or similar.

Reacting this way you show that the statement of the companion for you, is of no value, and he you indifferent, at least at the moment.

Deliberate disregard for and suspicion

If you are passionate about your thoughts or just absent-minded by nature, you can just “ignore” a compliment and, accordingly, does it not react.

And some do so specifically because prone to suspect others for selfish intent. But the lack of response may offend your interlocutor: it may consider you arrogant special and next time do not go to a rapprochement.

How to take a compliment

  • A great habit to respond to compliments with a smile. Even better if you add some pleasant (but not the duty!) a phrase like “Thanks, I’m glad you noticed” or “Thanks, from your words, once the mood has risen!”. It is a good idea to thank the interlocutor’s response as a compliment, not copy his words. Be creative! “ToKnow365.top” recommends to come up with some “domestic preparations” that are appropriate to different situations, and use them.
  • Look in the eyes, answering the compliment. So you show that you are interested in, important to you and valuable. If you look the other way, people might think that you are either insincere or indifferent to it.
  • Show that you are really pleased with the compliment. Don’t wait to catch others: perhaps someone has told you a few nice phrases, really thinks so or just wanted to share with you my good mood. Is this not reason for joy?
  • Do not try to find a compliment “hidden meaning” to think out of the interviewee that he, most likely, not meant. And certainly, we should not react aggressively. So, in response to the compliment “nice hair today” should not throw: “Want to say that I usually go topsy-turvy?!” If the phrase seemed ambiguous to you, it is better to directly ask the interlocutor what he wanted to say, only in correct form. Ruining relations with a man for nothing, you will be hard to reclaim the location.
  • It is also worth to learn how to accept compliments, too reminiscent of barefaced flattery. Even if you they are very nasty, try to turn the conversation into a joke, answer “You praise me…” or “You flatter me”. If you are having serious doubts about the sincerity of the interlocutor, just treat his words with irony, while not forgetting to thank the smoothie. At least for the effort.
  • Do not go to extremes. Don’t lose self-esteem, but not too turn up their noses, or you may find a proud.
  • Be natural. This is especially true of communication with the opposite sex. Nice to buy such a habit, how to respond to compliments men with a quiet dignity, and perhaps with a slight hint of irony. Coquetry and the habit of asking for praise did not decorate, and these forced compliments are unlikely to be sincere.
  • Do not be silent in response. Try to focus on the other person – this useful skill will help you further learn to build good relationships with others.
  • Pay attention to the source. Even if you are in a hurry, to sincerely thank and say a few kind words in response to the compliment, it will take less than a minute. Does the relationship with your interlocutor is not worth it?
  • Do not reply to a compliment with a negative. If you want to make claims, look for that another time. Phrases like “I didn’t expect such attention to yourself” as a response to the kind words are irrelevant.
  • Increase your self-esteem. If you every time are lost, not knowing how to respond to the compliment, if such a situation really confuse you and knock you off your game – most likely, you are not love and appreciate yourself. It’s time to work on that!

  • The author – Elena Matusak (Lanberri), site – ToKnow365.top

    How to respond to a compliment?





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